This checks if the layout of `std::initializer_list` is something Clang
can handle much earlier and deduplicates the checks in
CodeGen/CGExprAgg.cpp and AST/ExprConstant.cpp
Also now diagnose `union initializer_list` (Fixes#95495), bit-field for
the size (Fixes a crash that would happen during codegen if it were
unnamed), base classes (that wouldn't be initialized) and polymorphic
classes (whose vtable pointer wouldn't be initialized).
Instead of using the validity of a brace's source location as a flag
for list initialization, this now uses a PointerIntPair to model it so
we do not increase the size of the AST node to track this information.
This allows us to retain the valid source location information, which
fixes the coverage assertion.
Fixes https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/62105
Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D148245
