This checks if the layout of `std::initializer_list` is something Clang
can handle much earlier and deduplicates the checks in
CodeGen/CGExprAgg.cpp and AST/ExprConstant.cpp
Also now diagnose `union initializer_list` (Fixes#95495), bit-field for
the size (Fixes a crash that would happen during codegen if it were
unnamed), base classes (that wouldn't be initialized) and polymorphic
classes (whose vtable pointer wouldn't be initialized).
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