The `ModuleCache` class is currently reference-counted intrusively. As
explained in https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/139584, this is
problematic. This PR uses `std::shared_ptr` to reference-count
`ModuleCache` instead, which clarifies what happens to its lifetime when
constructing `CompilerInstance`, for example. This also makes the
reference in `ModuleManager` non-owning, simplifying the ownership
relationship further. The
`ASTUnit::transferASTDataFromCompilerInstance()` function now accounts
for that by taking care to keep it alive.