At the moment, the full cost of all interleave group members is assigned
to the instruction at the group's insert position, even if the decision
was to not form an interleave group.
This can lead to inaccurate cost estimates, e.g. if the instruction at
the insert position is dead. If the decision is to not vectorize but
scalarize or scather/gather, then the cost will be to total cost for all
members. In those cases, assign individual the cost per member, to more
closely reflect to choice per instruction.
This fixes a divergence between legacy and VPlan-based cost model.
Fixes https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/108098.
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